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Entitled bitch!

122 replies

Garnett · 02/03/2016 07:58

I get to the bus stop a bit early and think, I've just got time to get a coffee. Join what's a slightly long queue at Costa, but I should still be okay.

A very well-dressed mother walks away with her drink and the drink of her early-to-mid teen daughter.

I get to the front, place my order and pay.

Mine's next in line to be made when blonde swoops back in saying to the daughter, "You know it's so important to me, darling"

She puts both drinks down and says, "This needs to be extra hot".

And the staff immediately acquiesce and start making her a new drink.

My bus turns up and I have to shout, "I'll pick up the flat white tomorrow" as I run out.

Just wishing I had the wherewithal to add, "just make sure that's hot enough for the entitled bitch"

What's got me going is that from what she said when she came back in, it sounded like the daughter placed the order and forgot to specify temperature at the time.

OP posts:
thecatfromjapan · 02/03/2016 09:18

I've thought about ths (for a whole five mins!): you should write a diary - maybe in small bursts, throughout the day - it'll give you distance and control; you're good at writing; it'll make you laugh about things; it may even push you in the direction of a change of career.
I think it will make you feel massively better. I'm not being sarcastic or horrible. If I weren't on my phone, I'd give more reasons why I think this would be good.

Lanark2 · 02/03/2016 09:19

Personally, I think there should be two queues anyway, one for the espresso bit and one (slower) for all the bucket sized milk fluffy marshmallows and cakes and shit. I hate it if I want a fix and am behind fat middle-class fat family and their babychino flake toast, sandwich, cake, mocha, cream marshmallow. With some extra spoons and 'oh did you give me the butter, yes you did oh I'm sorry I should have said black americano' bullshit....

PaulAnkaTheDog · 02/03/2016 09:19

limited don't be daft. She'll have mgocal hair pixies that do it overnight, so she wakes up a beautiful, entitled bitch.

PaulAnkaTheDog · 02/03/2016 09:20

*magical

limitedperiodonly · 02/03/2016 09:20

I hate it if I want a fix and am behind fat middle-class fat family and their babychino flake toast, sandwich, cake, mocha, cream marshmallow. With some extra spoons and 'oh did you give me the butter, yes you did oh I'm sorry I should have said black americano' bullshit....

That's what caffeine does to you.

GooseberryRoolz · 02/03/2016 09:21

I hate it if I want a fix and am behind fat middle-class fat family

Now Lanark's caught The Rage too.

LineyReborn · 02/03/2016 09:22

You'd have spilled it all over yourself on the bus, anyway.

OnlyLovers · 02/03/2016 09:23

You sound bitter and with a chip on your shoulder, OP.

Lanark2 · 02/03/2016 09:23

Hmmph.. I have just found out that if I flew to Milan and bought all my annual coffees at once, it would be cheaper, and I would save more than six weeks a year in arseing about behind bucket-drinkers time.

thecatfromjapan · 02/03/2016 09:23

I remember coffee in flasks. It had a really peculiar taste, too. I wonder if it went on cooking inside the flask.

I'm going to add that to the list of things I tell my children about the barbarian past.

Lanark2 · 02/03/2016 09:23

Mmm bitter, dark with a chocolate chip..

thecatfromjapan · 02/03/2016 09:24

Lol@ gooseberry rules 'caught the rage'!

Lanark2 · 02/03/2016 09:24

The struggle is real.

ScrambledEggAndToast · 02/03/2016 09:24

That would have annoyed me too. Yesterday something similar happened too and as soon as it happened I knew I could complain on MN I was in the Post Office and there was one woman in front of me. She went off and I assumed that she had changed her mind so I moved into her space. I got to the head of the queue and she then reappeared and cut in front of me ShockMy mouth was open to tell her to bog off but then she got called forward by the cashier. I'm sorry but in my view, if you leave the line for 3/4 minutes then you lose your place. Just because you USED to be stood there, it doesn't mean you can have your place back.

Phew, I got that out. MN is great for a moan Grin

Fozzleyplum · 02/03/2016 09:25

On balance, YABU. Costa queues move slowly and clearly you had cut it so fine time-wise that any slight delay would have caused you a problem.

The degree of unreasonableness would be mitigated if the other customer's DD had got the order wrong (rather than the staff not making the coffee as requested), because the customer was then cutting the queue to sort out a problem that her daughter had caused.

However, I think you are being chippy, OP, because you perceived that the customer was an "entitled bitch" because she appeared well-groomed and wealthy, and called her daughter "darling".

LineyReborn · 02/03/2016 09:25

Tea in flasks tasted even odder, japan.

PaulAnkaTheDog · 02/03/2016 09:26

ScrambledEgg yes but was she blonde?

LineyReborn · 02/03/2016 09:27

I'm having visions of Edina and Saffy in a Costa queue now.

ThenLaterWhenItGotDark · 02/03/2016 09:28

Didn't we use to make flasks of tea/coffee with Marvel milk though? So you got those attractive blobbles of white stuff sitting on top? Was that what changed the taste?

limitedperiodonly · 02/03/2016 09:28

You'd have spilled it all over yourself on the bus, anyway.

Very true. I remember in about 2000 buying a coffee and striding all Sex In The City-like to my office. It spilled through the drink-through lid all over my top.

That was the last time I ever bought coffee to take away.

ScrambledEggAndToast · 02/03/2016 09:28

Paul- No, she was dark lol Grin

limitedperiodonly · 02/03/2016 09:32

I was in the Post Office and there was one woman in front of me...

There is a reason why people who work in the Post Office, banks, betting shops and driving buses are behind Plexi-Glass.

Perhaps that should be extended to people who toil in coffee shops.

TheClacksAreDown · 02/03/2016 09:32

Go to a Starbucks and order online via the app before you arrive. In and out of the store in seconds.

Owllady · 02/03/2016 09:32

You are not allowed to take hot drinks on the buses here

YouAreMyRain · 02/03/2016 09:33

You lost me at "bitch"