Hi, this has really annoyed me but I don't know if I'm being silly about it. I have twin boys, born very prematurely at 24 weeks 6 days. Doing great now. they have just had their first birthday and it was huge for us in so many ways, we know how lucky and blessed we are to have these fighters. Anyway, my sister, who has 4 children, did not wish them happy birthday, or get them a present. We have, every year, without fail, always got her children cards and presents for Christmas and Birthday's. These are our first children. Am I being unfair to be annoyed and upset she didn't even bother to call, let alone send a card or present? Thanks!