to think my fiancee should come off mumsnet and give me some attention?

[twistedlove]

Shes totally diched me for the site, im feeling unloved!

I dont see the problem with this thread, the OP is clearly lighthearted.

It says in pp that the OP has anxiety and depression and all you poters talking the piss have probaly made her feel really bad about heself, some of these PP could be classes as bullying.

I read that thread they were both on and it was the OP's partner that commented and there was 2 or 3 messages between them and they werent in the same house.

You lot are very bitchy and seems to hate newcomers or anybody that doesnt fit into your clique.

I hope your okay OP not everybody on here is like that.

Don't say bitching Maryz, it's probably misogynistic...

she was at her mums originally.... it was just a joke, i was to interested in reading and i ve had a very nice women offer me help with my grammar ,bonus. and i actually really appreciate it ... but i will not write on my partners post again. if its going to cause such mayhem we'll except maybe some time if it makes everyone happier ill just be horrid to her on here instead of having a bit of a laugh

I need a drink after reading this. So confused!

If you only got back together today maybe turn the internet off and go and spend some time with each other in RL.

A couple of comments were harsh but I think mainly people were just s little confused, that's all.

I was called out for saying bitchiness so you're definitely not getting away with bitching!

Hmmm. This thread has raised all kinds of important issues and I'd like to thank the OP for bringing them to everybody's attention. There are many ways to look at this situation and we all need to think long and hard about are own situations as much as the OP's before casting judgement. We need to think about the information, the sources, and the consequences, which may include certain outcomes. Outcomes that very well may result from this most issuey thing. There's one thing that we can all be sure of and that is that it most definitely has to be a result of the points leading up to, but possibly not including and without any possibilities of neither being one thing or the other, the eventual eventualities.

I will now read the thread.

Well, that's 4 and a half pages of not much.

Not to you op . Some MNers seem to be pre-clutching their pearls these days. This was way more interesting than the usual weekend threads. Congrats on getting back together

Twisted and manic - I need to apologise. I had confused manic with another poster and I was totally confused as to how so much drama can afflict the life of one woman! But it turns out you are 2 totally different posters.

Sorry!!

Hey, I thought it was really sweet seeing the op's partner turn up!
Nothing wrong with the post whatsoever. I can only imagine they both feel pretty shit now. . . How sad :-(
I really don't understand everyone's massive issue. Leave them be, they've done no harm.

I still have no idea what's going on but congrats on getting back together. Talk to each other! The Internet is no replacement for face-to-face communication.

just to put everyone straight, we weren't in the same house when i posted on her other thread but when she came in i was still on mn as some very kind lady had offered to help me with my spelling and grammar, she told me she was gonna post this in a jokey way, i didn't believe her but she did and i thought it was funny, we've never spoke over social networking sites before, neither of us are on facebook and we do talk in real life alot, we split up because she has anxiety and depression and sometimes cant cope with life but we both know were always gonna be together and she's always gonna come home she just needs respite sometimes.

im disappointed at how some of you have come across on this thread, some people don't fit in with society and already feel strange and weird, so why the need to point it out? does it make you feel better to make someone else feel bad?

Righto.

fatmommaGood job my partner isnt violent and that post wasnt abything bad about her or you could of just got me battered.... think before you post!

Are we playing 'What about the menz' bingo?

sassh

The op is a woman so for once no, it's not "what about the menz" bingo!

RTFT sashh.

OP and partner (both female sashh so to feck with your menz crap), all the best. What a shame you had such piss poor responses.

I thought it was quite sweet you both hi-fived each other on here.

Congratulations on the re-union and

You've been picked to shreds. Such a simple post too. No need for such controversy or negative vibes. I truly hope you are able to ignore unkind and unhelpful comments. . . You two didn't deserve them. All the best to you. Stay sweet :-) X

thickgit we're over it, i was a bit overwhelmed with the negativity but lucky manic is better at handdling people like that.

We've learnt not to talk to eachother over mumsnet.