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crackedphone · 18/02/2016 19:50

If a previous employer didn't give you a reference for a new job would you ever return to work with them?

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kimlo · 18/02/2016 19:51

No

Witchend · 18/02/2016 19:52

Depends why. I believe a lot of places don't do references now anyway.

HerRoyalNotness · 18/02/2016 19:59

Yes. My xworkplace doesn't do them. I need to ask individual managers if they would mind giving verbal ones when I need them.

MrsHathaway · 18/02/2016 20:25

If they had a policy of not giving them then fair enough.

And it's not unknown to refuse to help a good employee leave for a competitor. Could be a sign they liked you.

But no, I would only go back to a company if my experiences with them were overwhelmingly good, and a kerfuffle over a reference could well leave a bad taste in the mouth.

beardsrock · 18/02/2016 20:26

Did you ever ask for a reference from them in the first place?

crackedphone · 22/02/2016 21:25

yes. I did. In my field of work its expected.

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Iliveinalighthousewiththeghost · 22/02/2016 22:04

Probably not.

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