My husband has had cosmetic surgery

[cushion53]

He's over 60 and has done this before. I went away for a few days and when I got back I noticed his face looked different. I asked him about it and at first he denied everything. After a few days I asked him again and he admitted he's had threads put in under the skin to lift his jowls. This isn't the first time he has done this. He has had a nose job, eye lifts, mini face lift, chemical peel etc. He knows I absolutely hate anything like this. He always does it behind my back when I travel. I think it's pathetic and have told him he will end up looking like Mickey Rourke. Our 2 teenage kids would think he's a laughing stock if they found out. I'm thinking of walking out. AIBU?

This thread is from FEBRUARY, it was bumped by someone with a survey.

Yabu - he can do what he wants. If you want to break up with him, break up with him. Don't blame your unwillingness to break up with him on the fact that he doesn't want to break up with you . And presuming that he's raised the kids in this marriage he's not a "cocklodger". My DH may well become a SAHD, I really resent the assumption that he is somehow a scrounger (or that he will be later in life, after the kids have left and he can't find work easily because of big career break), especially when people would be up in arms if this were suggested of a SAHM.

Just go to a lawyer and file for divorce then he will have no option, also, if he doesn't work where is he getting the funds from, I have had lots of surgery and no surgeon would fund the operating theater, nurses and all the medication involved.
Maybe the surgeon is in some sort of relationship with him or maybe he has some gay escort life going on?
He doesn't actually sound "normal" and nothing is adding up.

Christ, this stupid thread is like a turd that won't flush.

CaptinCrunch you are obviously a guy, you would never understand women problems :-)

My breast reduction surgery and 2 C section scars would suggest otherwise dear.

Not quite a zombie but threads dead.

So funny.

No. It's not.

Where is your sense of humor!

I agree, now the thread is really dead.