My DP has always been an amazing dad to my little girl (5) and I can't fault him. We live together in a small home and work locally and he also has a DD (3) who lives here. All seemed perfect.
But I am furious with him because he spent a fortune we just didn't have at Christmas. He wanted to spend it to give DD1 who was unwell a Christmas she wouldn't forget and ran up a load of debt. I've had to go back to work to help pay our debts and I could really have done with some extra time with DD1.
Anyway so I sold my engagement ring 
to pay for our debts and then he decided to treat me and spent money on wine!
AIBU to be furious? He just doesn't get it ...