Even if they are all educated elite, it is wildly unethical to be basically setting out to brain-drain the entire middle class off a nation at war. How on earth is that nation expected to rebuild if the entire civil service goes and lives somewhere else?
A relative of mine worked for some years in a government advisory role in a post-conflict nation in West Africa. He told me one of the most enduring problems faced by a country recovering from war is that during the war anyone who can afford to leave - the middle and upper classes basically - will leave and many never come back. That leaves a gigantic skills gap when it comes to rebuilding the nation. That, in turn, means that the wrong people end up in power, or governments get taken over by kleptocracies or you end up with teetering systems and massive corruption. Because anyone who knows how to organise shit, and manage people, and get things done, has fucked off to live somewhere else.
This, above all else, is why the most compassionate thing to do is to support the creation and maintenance of livable refugee camps near the nation at war. Because then the refugees can return to their country once the war is over - including all those doctors and managers and businesspeople and bureaucrats and civil servants etc etc, the people who know how to make civil society function. If, instead, we have a de facto policy of creaming off into Europe anyone who can afford to pay people traffickers to get them there, post-confict Syria will be left trying to rebuild with only the people too incompetent, too indigent, too old or too young to have fled, and then violent opportunists move in and grab power.