Generosity and altruism can provide benefits to the person being generous and altruistic too. So what? Do you criticise nurses for choosing to do a job that helps others, or the older woman who volunteers in the local charity shop, or indeed the rape counsellor who visits women in the refuge? To reduce what they do to an ego trip or 'virtue signalling' is destructive.
Volunteers in Calais and Greece are also coming back with ptsd. There are personal benefits and costs involved in what they do. And they have saved lives.
Why on earth are you looking into the personal life of emily? It is intrusive and I think also intimidating.
As I have said elsewhere, it is striking how different opinions are viewed with suspicion, and paranoia about secret motives creeps in. I think it mirrors the paranoia and suspicion, and spreading of unsubstantiated assumptions and rumours about whole groups of refugees.
Whether emily lives in the U.K. Or not is irrelevant. I live in the U.K., I still have very strong views about the behaviour of Assad and Isis, regardless of whether or not I personally am threatened.
I also have very strong views about what happens in the USA.