I know hundreds of men and have encountered thousands. I don't know any who have given any indication that they think in line with your cheap sexist stereotyping.
I love this argument. That by trying to combat cheap sexist stereotyping of women I am somehow being cheap sexist stereotyping against men. 
I know MRA-types already believe this, so I'll put that aside for one moment and say: when you can show me a world where men are demoralised, denigrated, downtrodden, catcalled and abused in the sheer numbers that women are, then I will absolutely agree that I am being sexist stereotyping against men. Until that day, I won't waste any tears worrying about the poor menz fee-fees.
As to your first sentence about knowing / encountering hundreds / thousands of men, as you won't tell me your gender, I can't speak to the capacity in which you've encoutered those men, or why you have apparently encountered all the good men in the world (or, at least, the ones who keep their thoughts and unpalatable behaviours off your radar).
I would wager, however, that the sort of person who thinks the way you do (eg objectification doesn't exist, all those against overtly oppressive female imagery are prudes) tend not to notice, be aware of, or consciously acknowledge these kinds of behaviours. This is a well-known line of thinking in sociology. We notice the kind of behaviours that reinforce our worldview, and ones that disagree with that we tend to subconsciously ignore.
So it may be that all these awesome men you know aren't so nice, but you just don't notice - or that your barometer for sexist / oppressive behaviour isn't as finely tuned as women's, who have had to put up with it on a daily basis.