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DannyL15 · 24/12/2015 20:53

Can some one help me look at this different or am I in the wrong for getting upset? I recently found out my gf had sex with a 17 year old before she met me, up until I found out she would like his pictures on fb he is her daughters friend. She was 34 ant the time, I just don't know how to deal with it as I'm a bloke and would never and have never slept with anyone younger than me. It was five months before she met me but I cant wrap my head around it such a big age gap and why she felt the need to tell me just before we was invited to a party we were supposed to attend until she found out je was going to be thee. Am I being insecure or do I have a valid reason to a bit upset it made me physically sock I I'm being honest, any replies or advice would be grateful, thanks.

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GreatFuckability · 25/12/2015 03:26

13 is a very different thing to 17. My mum met when my sisters dad when she was 32/3 and he was 18. They've been together 35 years. Just because you aren't comfortable with it, doesn't mean its wrong. You have to accept she had a life before you, or not be with her.

DannyL15 · 25/12/2015 04:21

She's told me all about her past been cheated on by her husband of 13 years but also done the cheating, I haven't judged made an opinion she's done what sounds words and I've accepted it and because of circumstances at the time in her life, but that? There's something that just doesn't sit right with it for me

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Mmmmcake123 · 25/12/2015 04:31

Is it me, or is this all a bit (very) JK Show?

DannyL15 · 25/12/2015 11:15

More the twilight zone than jk

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