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*Trigger warning added by MNHQ - graphic imagery* WIBU to say something ? Now friend is not talking to me anymore. Warning something pretty bad is mentioned.

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Italianmoma1983 · 21/12/2015 12:49

Hi there,

Hope you can help me. I have this friend who lives in Italy at the moment while her husband is based in England for work. I saw her husband last Friday at mutual friend's house. He showed me a picture that she sent him with the caption : This is what's going to happen to you if you cheat on me. The picture showed a dead man with his genitals cut off...genitals in his mouth. This picture made me feel sick. The day after I contacted my fiend and told her I was really shocked that she thought it was ok to use such horrible pictures. She told me that it was none of my business that this picture was sent as a joke. She is disgusted that her husband showed it to me in the first place as it was between the 2 of them (I agree with her). The husband accused me of stirring shit between the 2 of them and she told me to fuck off and hasn't spoken to me since. WABU to say something ? I told her she completely lost her mind !

OP posts:
Italianmoma1983 · 22/12/2015 14:44

They are not talking to me anymore and see me as a shit stirrer...I could send the links to him but I'll think it will all backfire to my face.

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Lweji · 22/12/2015 14:53

It's not a surprising reaction, sadly.
I might send him the links but not expect a reply at all.

ShipwreckedAndComatose · 22/12/2015 15:21

Worth sending the links since your friendship appears screwed anyway

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