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AIBU?

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Should i stop sending gifts?

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PeppasNanna · 05/12/2015 10:04

Back story is ive known my friend over 20 years.

Ive always sent gifts, as they moved to the other side if the UK about 10 years ago. Now we have grandchildren etc. I send the dc & gdc gifts. Cards to df & her dh on birthdays/anniversaries/Christmas.

Since last year my gifts haven't been acknowledged. Df used to call but now not even a text. I was pretty hurt last Christmas as it was my dd 1st Christmas & df didn't send a card or acknowledge the gifts i sent her family.

Last month there was a special birthday in their family. I sent £50. No acknowledgment. She cashed the cheque though.

This week i sent another birthday gift & again no acknowledgment/text/thankyou.

I've never recieved gifts from df. So I dont give to recieve.

AIBU to stop sending gifts?

Maybe I think more of the friendship then she does...I sound like a right sad cow now!!Xmas Blush

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PeppasNanna · 05/12/2015 23:45

Thankyou all for your kind replies...i really thought i would be flamed for being too soft.

From now on just a card will suffice. Thanks

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