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DD2 took afew years off my life tonight. AIBU to ask you for happy ending stories of mislaid offspring?

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NorthernLurker · 26/11/2015 22:08

Dd2 (who is nearly flipping 15 btw) was helping at school open evening. I said I would pick her up 'at the front of school' at 6.30. I was a couple of minutes late home so dh set off to get her. He waited over thirty minutes then went in to find her, only to discover she had left on time at 6.30. I rang one of her friends, he said he'd seen her heading out of the school grounds, no idea where she was. It was way past the length of time it would have taken her to walk home. I was starting to panic and chucked dd3 in car (dd1 was out) and set off to drive the route she would walk home. Meanwhile dh was rallying teachers who were also ringing round. Dd2 is sensible (as in not likely to be out drinking) and law abiding. It just didn't make any sense!

As I drove towards school I was scanning the streets for her and finally on the corner before the school exit I saw her. Screeched to halt and shouted 'what the heck was she doing'. She shouted back 'where have you beeeeeeeeen' So I ordered her back in to school where we met dh. Turns out she thought she was in the right place because that's where I've picked her up from before as the school buses are in the school grounds at 3.30. After hours we've always picked up from the school drive itself. It never occurred to us that a perfectly bright 14 yr old could think out the gate and on a corner was 'the front of school'. She didn't have her phone with her because she isn't supposed to have it at school at all. A mistake we will not make again.......She must have been going out of one gate as dh drove in the other (one way system) so he didn't see her.

Anyway so a few tears all round and a feeling of relief which is still hitting me.

So what's happened to everybody else?

Grin
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PonyoLovesHam · 27/11/2015 21:30

I lost dd age 4 recently in toys r us, I was with my mum and dd wandered off - she is NOT a wandering off type of child. I ran around the store frantically for what felt like 10 mins but was probably less, and was panicking about her being snatched, being dragged into the toilets, having gone out into the car park etc. The worst thing was not knowing which way to go, should I go out towards the exit, should I head the complete opposite direction...?
I found her walking around with a look on her face that I can remember so clearly, she was teary and looked so worried. We had the talk about what to do if she's ever lost again now!

A few years ago we were on holiday abroad and from our balcony saw a little girl toddle over toward the exit, probably about 3. She was stopped by a few people who we noticed didn't touch her, but looked like they were checking she was ok. Then a man came running over, I presume he was her dad and took her back with him. She'd managed to avoid 2 deep pools on her way and thankfully not made it out of the exit.

QOD · 27/11/2015 21:34

My friend in NZ lost one of her twins. Just POOF gone

Nowhere in the house, yard whatever. They looked everywhere and.mobilised the neighborhood.

It was so awful. The police came out and neighbourhood searches started.
I dunno if they call it bush in NZ but checking scrubland etc.
a helicopter is about to be mobilised.

TV appeal is the next step, she's been gone 2 hrs at this point.

Friend in lounge sobbing with police and family.

Out pops little girl from the cats little kinda padded roofed bed.
She'd crawled in and gone to sleep

The relief ...

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