Vestalvirgin- also, I wasn't suggesting that what poor people's money is spent on should be accounted for in any way.
I was saying that poverty should not be calculated by the amount of money someone has after a certain point, because certain people make their money go much further than others...
when talking about the one family who spends on cheaper brands and another who has more expensive, was actually taking into account one of my friends and myself.
Friends husband pulls in something like £25000 per year, they have five children and no benefits. Their rent is £1050 per month, by the calculations they would be on the poverty line.
We earn at least 10k more per year. We have one child and our rent is £700 per month.
So for the purposes of the poverty calculator we would not be on the poverty line.
We have been shopping for our children's clothes together, and we have also been food shopping together. her food shop was incredibly low, not because she buys less, but because she buys cheap. Her food shop for the month was close to what we spend a week.
But that's easy to see why, when she will buy an asda sauce for something like 35p, and I buy dolmio at 1.35 or something similar.
She went to primark and bought the kids all a few bits for £80 when we spend quite a bit on clothes.
When we were doing school clothes shopping, I spent more in Clarks on my one that she did on her three that needed school shoes.
People have very different ways of doing things. And some people make money last much much longer than others.
My friends children aren't impoverished whatever the statistics come to. Her children have exactly the same prospects and expectations out of life than my one does.
i just don't think that it's fair to put the label there in the first place, it makes people feel like shit when someone says that your child is living in poverty... Especially if you are trying your best to make sure that they have everything that's needed, it's like someone saying that the children still don't have.
When in reality, it's not always that way, because many people who are a bit worse off are bloody nifty with their money and make sure that it goes exactly where it needs to and their children aren't actually living in poverty.
I feel like I've really done a bad job of explaining what I mean.., but in many cases I suspect children will be alright cos it is the ones who need to make the choice of whether they have cheapest and have everything or have more expensive and half of what is needed will make the choice of cheapest and the children will have all they need.
My mate does so well, I need to tell her I think that tomorrow.