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To find neighbour's request entitled and rude

123 replies

frillybiscuits · 17/11/2015 14:16

I moved into a council property a couple of months ago (maisonette, house turned into two flats). My upstair's neighbours own a taxi rank so take up all the available parking spaces directly outside the flat with 5 people carrier type taxis and 1 estate one, which means we have to park on the other side of the culdesac which has a massive grassy island in the middle of it. We struggled like hell to move our stuff in. I'm 32 weeks pregnant and have bad SPD so struggle walking far distances at the best of times, and I would love to be able to park outside my own home anyway.

One day there was a space infront of our flat because one of the taxis were being used and we had some more boxes to move in so it was ideal. I didn't think this would be a problem but the next morning we got a knock on our door. It was the upstairs neighour, he asked my OH to move his car so he could park his taxi outside. OH not wanting to get off on bad terms with new neighbours he moved his car. Now I am thinking what the hell. They can't tell us where we can and cannot park our car, especially when we're going to be lugging a child/travel system/loads of shopping out of it. I imagine he likes to park them there for security reasons but it's still really rude and inconsiderate of the other residents. The parking spaces aren't assigned to certain flats/houses but taking up all 6 spaces? Now that's just taking the piss. Please tell me i'm not BU.

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BitOutOfPractice · 17/11/2015 15:08

Blimey I thought I'd read about every entitled parking thread ever - but this one takes the biscuit

OP YANBU and I hope the council back you up

Writtenbyme · 17/11/2015 15:10

Is it parking on the street we are talking about or the front garden turned into parking spaces?

ElderlyKoreanLady · 17/11/2015 15:13

Shock at your DH for moving the car! Maybe I'm a bit of a brassy person but when I know my car is parked legally it takes someone struggling (disability, heavily pregnant, moving house, etc) for me to move it if I don't need to.

Intrigued as to why the neighbour even knocked on. He must know he has no entitlement to the space. In fact, I'd imagine he knows he can't take up those spaces for business use. I wonder if his insurance is even valid.

SaskiaRembrandtWasFramed · 17/11/2015 15:30

If it's a real taxi rank it will be marked as such, and other taxi companies would use it, not just your neighbour.

blankblink · 17/11/2015 15:53

Ask the Council, there's probably a sub clause in his rental agreement about running a business from their property. even if he's bought it, that could still apply.

Anastasie · 17/11/2015 15:59

I'd be a bit cautious that he might try and make life hard for you if he knows you've reported him for taking the piss, so just be aware of that and maybe mention it to the council so they don't tell him it was you.

I am wondering if it pisses off the other neighbours as well and if so why they haven't said anything.

Could you ask them maybe?

Madmog · 17/11/2015 16:11

I'd be tempted to get in touch with Council, tell them your neighbour is running a taxi business from home and seems to think he can park the cars immediately outside and you just want to check this is correct!

PeasinPod1 · 17/11/2015 16:23

OP.... book 1 of his taxix to pick up from say Sainsburys in town (so he doesn't actually turn up at someone house) ...when taxi drives off, move your car back. When he comes round again, stay firm, indicate bump and explain you need a space by your house due to pregnancy/carrying stuff inside and when baby arrives, you'll of course definitely be needing and using said space frequently, so perhaps he could get used to parking one of his cars beyond greasy island already, thanks for the understanding, bye!

PurpleBun · 17/11/2015 16:23

I wholeheartedly agree with everyone else - YANBU!

angelos02 · 17/11/2015 16:26

Peasinpod that is a great idea.

I can't believe the brass-neck of the neighbour. Unless the spaces are designated to his flat, he is not entitled use any of them any more than you are.

AlpacaPicnic · 17/11/2015 16:35

I would go one step further than Peas... I would book several cabs for all over different areas of town. Repeatedly. From blocked numbers.

For example...
'Hi, can I book a taxi from for a 6am pickup?'
Then when they get there... nobody needs a cab. Use the name of a closed shop so that no innocent homeowner is accidently accused.

Repeat until he gets the memo...

I probably would't do it but I'd be bloody tempted

MrsUltra · 17/11/2015 16:39

council rode his arse repeatedly great expression - gonna use that! Grin

MrsUltra · 17/11/2015 16:42

Amazed that the other neighbours have rolled over on this! Definitely contact the council - very likely to be a clause saying he can't run a business from the premises anyway.
You could also lobby for residents parking permits so he would in any case get only one permit for his flat.

londonrach · 17/11/2015 17:07

Ask the council about this!

TendonQueen · 17/11/2015 17:09

YANBU. And get onto the council to get the situation clarified.

Anastasie · 17/11/2015 17:10

You should definitely not engage in dubious tactics, false phone calls, etc etc

could escalate rather badly

I'm sure you are sensible enough to take this with a pinch of salt OP but just putting it out there...

Fugghetaboutit · 17/11/2015 17:12

Fuck him. I'm 34 weeks preg and have told the builders office next door not to park outside my door as I struggle with my 2 year old and back pain. Their young fit builders can walk a little further to their car.

Tell them you're pregnant and entitled to park outside your flat even if you weren't.

itsmeohlord · 17/11/2015 17:21

If he is running a business from home and parking his business vehicles on the street, he should be paying business rates - report him!

No one should be allowed six car parking spaces.

itsmeohlord · 17/11/2015 17:23

If he is running a business from home and parking his business vehicles on the street, he should be paying business rates - report him!

No one should be allowed six car parking spaces.

Penfold007 · 17/11/2015 17:23

YANBU the neighbour is running a taxi business from the council/HA flat he rents and using all of the allocated parking for his business so forcing other tenants to park elsewhere. A innocent phone call to your housing provider asking why you can't park in the provided car park should sort this out.

LindyHemming · 17/11/2015 17:35

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Justaboy · 17/11/2015 17:46

Only if its a designated rank can any Taxis operate from there. It sounds like as other posters have said that he's running the firm from there and that isn't on.

The local council will be the licensee for any Taxis service's and they will put him straight. If it were me I'd "accidentally" scape a few of them, your too kind and polite!.

The environmental health might get involved if he's causing any sort of a nuisance by running a business from there too.

Generation1979 · 17/11/2015 17:46

How many flats are these spaces supposed to service? I'd be pushing for allocated parking!

frillybiscuits · 17/11/2015 17:54

The suggestions to piss him off are great! I'm phoning my housing officer tomorrow to enquire about the parking and if he is going to get in trouble I'll insist on remaining anonymous so he won't make my life hell.

Here's a virtual glass of wine, since I can't have a real oneWinkWine

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RandomSocks · 17/11/2015 17:58

Definitely push for allocated parking. Why shouldn't one of the spaces be allocated to you? If there are 6 spaces, perhaps he could reserve one for you? That might be better for him than having you report him, but it doesn't sound like he is willing to be reasonable.