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To be annoyed that I have been added to this FB group

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cuntycowfacemonkey · 15/11/2015 23:46

Someone I know on a very casual basis added me to a FB group they had just set up related to a hobby I have nothing to do with. I didn't think much about it and left it a few months and then whilst having a facebook clear out last night I "left" the group.

Just looked and I've been added back which is annoying. It's like having a big spring clean and then grandma turning up with a bag of shite from the pound shop for the DC's, also a bit presumptious on their part to assume I want to join and why isn't it like friends requests so you can ignore or decline?. Have unfollowed the group but can't leave because that would be a bit obvious.

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TurnOffTheTv · 15/11/2015 23:49

Leave and block.

Mysteryfla · 15/11/2015 23:52

Cluck to leave the group. There's a check box on the pop up that says prevent allowing anyone to readd me to the group, check that and they'll leave you alone.

cuntycowfacemonkey · 15/11/2015 23:58

But I'll look mean!

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madwomanbackintheattic · 16/11/2015 00:00

Don't be daft. Just leave.

gamerchick · 16/11/2015 00:00

So what? Only a dick would re add you to a group you've left.

cuntycowfacemonkey · 16/11/2015 00:04

True gamerchick, see that was my initial response "what a dick why would you re add someone who just left" but then I had doubts and thought that maybe it was a mean spirited thought and I should be nicer.

But I think you're right they must just be a dick

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Fluffyears · 16/11/2015 00:16

This gives me the rage, how dare someone add me to a group without checking if I want to be added or not. Leave the group each time you are added and they might get the message. I had exact same scenario by some woman who does those overpriced party light candles. She added me, I left she added me again and I left and she hasn't added me again!

SpendSpendSpend · 16/11/2015 00:17

In your facebook settings you can opt for facebook groups to have your approval before you are added to the group

cuntycowfacemonkey · 16/11/2015 00:20

Can you spendspendspend? Thanks I didn't know that.

Fluffy I'm glad I'm not the only one it annoys!

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squoosh · 16/11/2015 00:20

Leave and change your facebook pic to a sign that says 'Stop adding me to your poxy facebook group'.

cuntycowfacemonkey · 16/11/2015 00:29

Like this one?

To be annoyed that I have been added to this FB group
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VulcanWoman · 16/11/2015 00:44

spend that's good to know, should be the default setting, bloody Facebook, so many settings!

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