to think I didn't do anything wrong by sleeping with someone else?

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So I've been seeing a guy for just over a month .... and I also have a friends with benefits type situation with another guy.

Yes probably getting judged for that but I always use protection AND I get tested regularly.

Anyway the guy I was seeing I met on tinder and the whole time I was dating him he kept his tinder profile.

I asked him once when we were in bed together if he saw us being together and I got the reply - I don't know because I don't look that far into the future.

He found out about the other guy today, not that it was a secret and said its over between us and that I have no respect for myself and we clearly have different values and I was probably sleeping with loads of men etc

Aibu to think I did nothing wrong, and I even asked him at one point if he was seeing anyone else.

(just to say also I would never cheat on someone if they were my partner)

I would and have done the same thing.
You liked him, you would have liked to become exclusive he was the one holding back on that when you asked how he felt about the two of you.
You sought another indication from him on how he feels by asking if he was seeing anyone else.
I always assume until its acknowledged that a relationship is exclusive that it isn't, that doesn't mean I would rub someones nose in it that I am still seeing my 'friend' by 'just letting them know'. I would find it a turn off and think he was showing off what a stud he is if the man was letting me know that on purpose. I'm happy to assume that we are both still single until established otherwise but I don't need him to open he's diary to me that's a bit insensitive.