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To be getting myself in a right old (admittedly almost enjoyable) tizzy over this date?

106 replies

SolidGoldBrass · 04/11/2015 18:27

So I have a date - well, a shag-date lined up for Sunday afternoon.
I absolutely do not know what to do with myself this week. I am horrendously out of practice (haven't had sex with anyone else for several years) and panicking that he will be disappointed with my obsolete skills and aging body (he is a lot younger than me).

I do know that if it doesn't work out, he is a genuinely nice bloke and we will be able to laugh it off and have a cup of tea and not worry but still...

OP posts:
Christinayangstwistedsista · 08/11/2015 09:40

Enjoy!

My most exciting part of today is having a ginger nut and a brew whilst watching Downtown

Valdeeves · 08/11/2015 10:33

And mine - very jealous!!!!

AnyFucker · 08/11/2015 12:29

I just had some Angel cake. Life on the edge !

Shakey15000 · 08/11/2015 12:36

Ooh that anticipation is ridiculously potent isn't it?

Can I just have a round of applause impart something? After 2 dry years due to a medical condition on my part, my darling, very patient DH and I had stonkingly good sex last night. As you were Grin

Trills · 08/11/2015 12:50

if it doesn't work out, he is a genuinely nice bloke and we will be able to laugh it off and have a cup of tea and not worry

That sounds lovely :)

AnyFucker · 08/11/2015 17:40

well, how was it ?

Christinayangstwistedsista · 08/11/2015 17:46

Perhaps she is ahem busy...or exhausted!

Will go back to my ginger nuts

Beautifullymixed · 08/11/2015 18:14

Hope all went well OP.
I have just broken a four year dry spell with an old boyfriend friend.
I had butterflies, anxious thoughts about my body etc etc. In the end, it just didn't matter. Glass of wine, clothes were off.
My goodness it was worth the wait Grin

Did it again the weekend after, and the weekend after that Blush

BitOutOfPractice · 08/11/2015 18:27

I was skimming through this thread faster a faster to s climax then...disappointment!

Hope your afternoon was more satisfying opGrin

BertieBotts · 08/11/2015 18:35

I am totally and completely awkward when it comes to "planned" sex too and literally do stand arouns going "So... what do we do now?" Grin

Hope OP is in a nice sex coma Grin

SaucyJack · 08/11/2015 19:15

Yeah, where's the update?

We went to the PILs yesterday and watched Toy Story 3 this afternoon.

I need some vicarious cheap thrills in my life.

SolidGoldBrass · 09/11/2015 00:07

Erm....
OMG OMG OMG Grin Grin Grin

WTF was I worried about?

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ImperialBlether · 09/11/2015 00:34

Did you get back in the saddle, SGB? Grin

SolidGoldBrass · 09/11/2015 00:41

Back in everything .

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ImperialBlether · 09/11/2015 00:47

Lucky bitch! Grin

Christinayangstwistedsista · 09/11/2015 06:26
Grin
magimedi · 09/11/2015 08:31

Yay!!

IrenetheQuaint · 09/11/2015 08:39

I have just read this thread from start to finish on my journey to work - great to see it has a happy ending

DixieNormas · 09/11/2015 10:35

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ReadFox · 09/11/2015 12:09

Ha ha!

Glad it went well. Hope there's a repeat performance. Another canter around the enclosure

SolidGoldBrass · 12/11/2015 14:23

Well we have been chatting loads online all week. And I have just met up with him for a quick lunchtime drink (he works fairly near my house, which is a useful co-incidence even though he lives on the other side of London.)

Holding hands in the pub. WHAT THE FUCK IS HAPPENING TO ME??????

OP posts:
laureywilliams · 12/11/2015 18:59

Been meaning to get back to this thread all week.I'm clearly totally overinvested as I'm beside myself with excitement that it all happened. And hand holding too! Will this weekend bring a repeat?

SaucyJack · 12/11/2015 19:01

That's sounds romantic enough even for Fledermouse.....

Bless.

SolidGoldBrass · 12/11/2015 21:31

Well I will be seeing him on Sunday evening at an event but there will be other people there. However, another shag date booked in for next weekend...

It's all very nice but very strange. A lot of the strange is probably down to simply not having done anything in this department for a really, really long time: a lot of dating-type stuff is just different now.

I think I can handle it. (snort)

OP posts:
Trills · 13/11/2015 23:43

Holding HANDS?

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