Okay, I was all prepared to say you're all being unreasonable, that he's a strong powerful man and that can be a huge aphrodisiac, but really (I googled them). What the hell can she possibly see in him? He's old and wizened and he's got a weird pointy head. Eugh with knobs on.
And I speak as a woman of a certain age - not quite as old a Jerry if she's 70, as pp said, but not far off.