to stop dating this guy because he says "wee wee"

[Milanoska]

I've been on about 7 dates with him now and every time we go out when he goes to toilet he says - I'm just going for a wee wee.

He's 32.

Ok so you had sex and no orgasm but he thought you did and should be grateful enough for an orgasm (which you didn't actually have) that he tells you "you're welcome"? And he says wee-wee??!

Erm, what's the point of him? He sounds annoying a not very good in bed!

I was just about to say exactly the same as you MovingOnUpMovingOnOut. Definitely LTB but please tell him why.

"Erm there was one more thing.... we were talking about sex and he said - you're welcome by the way." "I said - for what?" "And he said for the orgasm."

Tell him, "You're welcome!" and then when he asks, "For what?" you can reply, "For getting dumped!"

I think that you have almost answered your own question. No 8th date it seems.

@ you're welcome , did he shake your hand too ?

What's his stance on poo poo , bet his willy is called Nigel or something equally as wanky , no pun intended btw

'You're welcome'? And you asked us about wee-wee?

Flush him, now.

See, if I didn't orgasm he'd have been let in no doubt at the time and the evening would have gone no further. You're welcome - c'mon tae fuck!

If you're honest enough to tell him you hadn't had an orgasm, you're also honest enough to tell him that a grown man saying 'wee wee' is massively off putting. I wonder why he thought you had if you hadn't though? Does he thinks he's gods gift and he only has to glance at you and you'll be climbing up the curtains?
Actually I'm joining the chorus of LTB.

I'd rather that than piss/dump - for some reason those two make me cringe and I can swear like a trooper in private/under stress (when younger too many jobs as only girl among 200 builders/architects/design engineers pre the PC era). Wee is fine/means someone has kids usually. Wee wee wouldnt be a reason to dump him either!!

I went out with a strapping 6ft bloke in his forties who used to say he had 'tummy ache' put me right off I tell you

Thing is, there are some things that you can't put up with. They might be small but having to live for 40+ years with someone who takes ages to clear his throat (say) then goes on about how bad his throat is will drive you mad.

These are the things that will drive you nuts years later as someone up thread said.

One of the main things that I seriously think ended my marriage to my now ex dh was that he liked to eat lying down on the floor on his stomach reading a copy of the Argos catalogue whilst holding his knife (which was like a small vegetable cutting knife that he always used for everything) like a pen. I get the rage even thinking about that now many years later and now remarried!

The small things that annoy you always turn into the big things!!

Wee-wee I could live with, it's an idiosyncrasy that could easily be remedied. The 'You're welcome' incident, however, makes him a massively entitled knob end and i would get rid immediately

Yes I prefer that, to piss/slash, that would be a definite no no in my books.

YANBU. I love that you told him he didn't give you an orgasm. If more people were that honest there would be fewer crap shags for everyone.

I am sitting here chuckling over the no-orgasm-revelation. Brilliant :)

Did he orgasm? Did he thank you for it?

OP please tell us his response when you 'politely informed him that no such thing happened'

(bin him btw - it's the smug misapprehension that of course having sex with him results in an orgasm for the laydeez, coupled with his complete inability to see that you actually hadn't, not the 'wee wee', iyswm)

The sex was still good, I just don't always orgasm in general (sadly for me haha)

His response was - oh I thought you had?

I just said no.

Then I think the subject got changed haha.

Why does he feel the need to announce it at all? I just tell people "I'll be right back" and pop over to the loo. I wouldn't want to put the visual in people's heads about what I'm actually doing in there. We all know you go to dispose of bodily waste, but saying you're taking a "wee-wee" just forces the visual in your head instead of simply not thinking about it.

You had sex with a man who says 'wee wee'?

I met someone recently who used the "little boys/girls room" it fair put me off them too!

Someone I went out on a date with used the phrase "I'm just going to drain my cane" charming...

The 'you're welcome' remark makes him sound like Alan Partridge, did he shout 'Jurassic Park' as he came?

Regarding the wee wee dilemma- it could be worse - my XH used to say ' Stop The Bus, I need a wee wee' loudly, whenever he did. He's in his fifties.

But now we are divorced, instead of cringing I just think 'not my circus not my monkeys' You too could reach this state of serenity OP