to stop dating this guy because he says "wee wee"

[Milanoska]

I've been on about 7 dates with him now and every time we go out when he goes to toilet he says - I'm just going for a wee wee.

He's 32.

Yeah Brecon fellow dog owner here, and I'm afraid I tell her to go pee-pee, which is probably even worse. It started when she was a cute fluffy puppy, gone on ever since and I don't know how to change it. Must admit I do feel a bit stupid standing at the back door telling her to go pee-pee before bed. Fortunately, I've managed not to carry it over into my dealings with humans.

Yes wee wee from an adult male would grate a bit. Even just saying I'm going for a wee would be better but slash or similar is just nasty.

If you are going to stop dating him, would you have anything to lose by telling him bluntly how ridiculous 'I'm going for a wee-wee' sounds from anyone over the age of about 5??!

Best case, he'll take on board what you are saying, and grow the hell up in his use of language, and you might find you have a good relationship growing - and worst case, he strops off, but in that case, he'd be no loss.

I feel like leaving my DP every time he calls the downstairs bog 'the cloakroom'. He has aspirations of a huge country pile somewhere where the loo has space for a pony I think. As it is we have a small toilet downstairs that has some hooks with some coats on it behind the door. That's the loo in my book

If he added wee wee into the mix is have to kill him. So I vote dump the bastard and find a grown up to date.

I think it's the childlike connotation, esp from a man with no kids so presumably not usually using it in that context.

Once I'd been with someone a while then wee/pee/slash/piss would be okay, but not on your first few dates when your trying to impress and/or decide if you want to have sex with them!

Mind you, I had a friend who used to announce that she was going for a Wazz. I HATED that with a passin and I don't even really know why.

YANBU - LTB.

I hate to think what he calls sex or his penis!

"I feel like leaving my DP every time he calls the downstairs bog 'the cloakroom'"

I hate the word 'bog' and to me a cloakroom is somewhere you leave coats at a theatre or something. I just say 'loo'.

See, I really can't stand the word loo. I find it horribly coy and twee. When my Beloved moved here from Englandshire I taught him the hilarious song "Stop the Bus I Need a Wee Wee" so wee-wee it always is. I am four years old, though.

Just take the piss out of him. [Excuse pun] See how he reacts.

My OH said it once - to be fair he had been looking after his small grandchild all day - and I managed a ten minute comedy routine at his expense and he hasn't done it since It also showed that he had a sense of humour and doesn't mind being ribbed.

"See, I really can't stand the word loo. I find it horribly coy and twee."

Well, consider yourself frowned at.

I can stand the word lavatory. But I don't know why.

I see your frown, and I raise a haughty eyebrow.

Erm there was one more thing.... we were talking about sex and he said - you're welcome by the way.

I said - for what?

And he said for the orgasm.

I politely informed him that no such thing happened.

Ugh! Ditch him the the 'you're welcome for the orgasm' shit.

Hang on! You were talking about sex and he thought you'd had an orgasm? Has he got a particularly sexy voice then when he's not saying weewee?

What a prize pollock.

The "you're welcome" comment is awful.

Broom him. He's mightily immature.

How old are you?

Some people just have funny language habits. If, however, that guy is 32 and dates someone much younger ... then I'd see that as a sign that he's rather immature in general.
(There's also men who think all women are little girls and adore teddy bears. Also a sign of immaturity)

Also ... just tell him he sounds like a child and you don't want to date a child. See if he changes it.

Okay, no, actually, don't talk to him again, run for the hills.

People who say "You are welcome" when no one has said "Thank you" are weird anyway, but men who are that full of themselves are horrid.

Oh you're having us on op.

wee-wee and thinking a woman has an orgasm during a conversation about sex? Give over.

Hang on! You were talking about sex and he thought you'd had an orgasm? Has he got a particularly sexy voice then when he's not saying weewee?

No we'd had sex before we'd gone out.

I was giving him the benefit of the doubt at first but ... "you're welcome" WTAF?

Get him gone ,who needs such PA crap?

wee-wee and thinking a woman has an orgasm during a conversation about sex? Give over.

No.

Sorry if I wasn't clear. We had sex before we went out.

LTB. You will anyway, picking faults like that, hes a goner.

He doesn't sound like much of a catch TBH.