I know this complaint is nothing new but I am feeling more and more annoyed with the time DH spends on FB. He is a musician and claims the 1000 plus FB friends he had are necessary for networking. In practice he is on there at least 10 X a day commenting often on childish posts by people in his network I've never heard of. Today's haul included a comment on a pic of a naked woman holding up a cat in front of her fanny. He rarely sees posts I make about funny things the kids have said or done because he's so busy with all his "friends." A mutual friend of ours who recently joined FB couldn't believe how active he was. It would be fine if I felt he was fully engaged with our family but I don't. He rarely makes things happen on his own intitiative and has to be reminded loads of times to do the things in his to do list. I feel he'd rather invest in a relationship with a thousand FB friends - many of them women than invest in his real world family. He does find his job boring so possibly FB is his outlet. He's going to be lucky to hold on to the job at this rate and that will be something else for me to sort out. I have asked him to cut down on his FB activity - he says he will but doesn't. Am concerned I will come across as controlling if I force the issue. It kind of is harmless - it just underlines my perception of him as a big kid who doesn't want to face his real life responsibilities.
I like FB too but I have far fewer friends - they are nearly all female and he knows most of them. Does anyone else have this problem?