The problem, by and large and as evidenced by this thread is that any concern expressed by those who are opposed to (or even cynical about) tax credits, is that it does become personal. By that, I don't just mean the 'Tory bastards' comments, as to be honest I don't even give those remarks the time of day, but with posts like the one from TogetherLand, where she justifies what she spends her money on - she doesn't have to.
No one needs to state they don't smoke, no one needs to state that they are looking forward to a life of not being dependent on TC, no one needs to justify themselves in any way whatsoever. It's the policy I object to and not the people claiming for it.
I am not eligible for tax credits: if I was, I would of course claim them.
My feelings on this matter are long and complicated - far too long and complicated to get into here - but politics can't be based on endless 'what ifs, what ifs, what ifs.' Yes, there may be some cases where a woman has varying shift patterns every week, with seven children (triplets followed by quads) an abusive ex partner and absolutely, utterly NO available work in the vicinity which she cannot leave even though there aren't any family to help with childcare, but to hand out sums of money on the assumption that every working class individual with children is incapable of working out these problems for themselves and finding a way around them is patronising and crippling.
In most cases, I don't think the outlook is about state reliance, but rather about an assumption about a minimum lifestyle and TC are part of that.