Scremersford
No.
I am not a PR agent for anyone.
I don't know the family, either family, involved in this case and I am not trying to sanctify anyone.
When I said, we just don't know and that they may have donated in some way, anonymously, then that is exactly what I meant. If they'd donated from their foundation then it wouldn't have been anonymous would it?
I also said they may have done no such thing and that could be based on legal advice and the prospect of being seen to pay blood money. It's just a concept of can you make amends?
What I do know, is that with the best will in the world, sometimes parents who've done a good job raising other children, or only having one, have done what most of us would consider to be the right things, end up with a grown child who is not a good member of society.
Again for clarity, I'm not referring to myself or my family with that comment, so I have no particular drum to bang.
I also didn't talk about prison and rehabilitation. I said maybe they were trying to rehabilitate him involving him in a charity foundation.
You may be right and kicking him out and disowning him may have made him turn his life around and change his ways.
What we don't know is how much worse he may have been in that scenario.
I just didn't agree that the parents should be penalised for a grown child's behaviour.