Hi, long time lurker, first time poster.
Had a bit of a reaction from my other half this evening, feeling furious but wanted a sounding board to see if I'm being mad!
Went out walking today, something I do fairly often, had new boots which DP knew I wanted to try so decided on a walk which would incorporate visiting a friend about an hour away after I was done (I visit this friends a few times a year).
When I came home and went to sit on sofa with glass of wine DP asked if that was what I was going to wear for the rest of the evening (sportswear) so I went upstairs to change. On way back downstairs I noticed TV I had taken out of ds's room and put on landing had gone. I'd been given a second hand tv and was going to put it into ds's room as his current one sometimes has dodgy sound but new one wouldn't fit on the shelf so both were sitting on landing. DS has friend coming over after school tomorrow so I had said i'd put old one back for now.
Anyway, DP said he'd got rid of old one when I asked if he'd put old one in the attic (which is what I'd assumed he'd done) and when I asked again he said he'd given it to his friend. Now I felt quite annoyed that he'd given it away without asking me, it's not his stuff to give away and I was going to put it back in ds's room. I don't care about the tv, if he had asked I would have said yes his friend could have it but I'm very annoyed at the not asking, I wouldn't dream of giving away his things without asking no matter what their condition.
Bizarrely he kind of went a bit nuts about this, saying I was totally out of order when literally all I said to him was I thought he ought to have asked me first.
He then went on to accuse me of distracting from the issue, asking where was I today when I had told him I was out walking then going to my friend's, and kept him up to date all day with what I was doing so I'm hellish confused as to what's going on!!