Best Amazon Prime Day deals: Mumsnet favourites

Best Amazon Prime Day deals:
Mumsnet favourites

Shop now

Please or to access all these features

AIBU?

Share your dilemmas and get honest opinions from other Mumsnetters.

To ask how long a typical bf session is?

21 replies

brightreddress · 05/10/2015 15:09

Just wondering how long your 6 month old (or thereabouts) bfs for per session. Mine seems to be latched for a very long time and wondering if it is comfort sucking. Thanks.

OP posts:
icclemunchy · 05/10/2015 15:19

Anywhere between 2 mins and 45/50 Grinnot helpful I know but it very much depends on her mood and what else is going on (although she's 8months not 6 it's pretty much been the same) she did have a big growth spurt around 5/6 months though a fed a lot then

Fugghetaboutit · 05/10/2015 15:22

Mine would be about 5-10 mins max but I had a v strong let down and ds would be gulping down

MrsTerryPratchett · 05/10/2015 15:23

How long is a piece of string? DD was lighting fast, and I had a lot of milk so a couple of minutes. But some babies feed for ages.

Writtenbyme · 05/10/2015 15:25

At 6 months one of my DC had just about decreased the time to 45 mins. The other DC had been steady at 20 mins each feed.

RoboticSealpup · 05/10/2015 15:28

DD used to bf for anything from 5 to 25 minutes, usually about ten. In the evenings, however, she would cluster feed for hours.

Bunbaker · 05/10/2015 15:32

DD used to take over an hour. She didn't have a very strong suck.

MrsMook · 05/10/2015 22:04

40 mins +
I had a strong let down, but I just seem to produce insatiable milk monsters with huge appetites.

SalemSaberhagen · 05/10/2015 22:08

Sometimes 5, sometimes 50. She's still the same now at 1, especially as I still feed to sleep at night.

Lelania · 05/10/2015 22:11

I missread that as bj session!

OhWotIsItThisTime · 05/10/2015 22:13

Ds1 - hours! Ds2, who I learnt to detach when he wasn't actively feeding, 10 mins.

eyeslikebutterflies · 05/10/2015 22:14

It varied so much with mine, depending on how hungry they were, how distracted, how tired, if they were poorly, on a growth spurt... but mine were always slow feeders, with a lot of cluster feeding thrown in for good measure. Sorry!

pointythings · 05/10/2015 22:15

Both of mine did about 20 minutes when they were very little, by 3 months they were racing through both sides in less than 15. They always had a little phase at the end though when they were dozy and milk drunk, doing little fluttery sucks whilst falling asleep - I rarely took them off, let them unlatch themselves. Apparently they get a lot of milk even at that stage, your breasts just keep the flow going. And of course there is nothing wrong with a bit of comfort sucking if you don't have to be anywhere/do anything and it isn't causing you discomfort.

speak2me · 05/10/2015 22:18

Ds2 is 6.5 months and a normal feed is 5 mins max. Dream feed and first one in the morning about 10mins as I know he's comfort sucking at the end!

PiccalilliSandwiches · 05/10/2015 22:23

DS 45 mins to an hour.
DD 2-5 mins. Lightening fast and less frequent, just a far more efficient feeder and I had more milk second time around.

Purplepoodle · 05/10/2015 23:14

mine would have happily sat there for hours so had to learn to watch when he would stop gulping and start doing the whole fluttery tongue thing.

JawannaDrink · 05/10/2015 23:26

Yabu to ask here, its not an aibu, there is a whole topic for this. And the answer is "how long is a piece of string" anyway, since everyone is different.

contractor6 · 06/10/2015 09:18

Jawanna do you have the link to bf topic, I cant find it? Thanks!

JawannaDrink · 06/10/2015 10:24

www.mumsnet.com/Talk/breast_and_bottle_feeding

icanteven · 06/10/2015 10:30

Child 1: 40 - 60 minutes
Child 2: 10 minutes flat (but also got blocked ducts a lot, so longer might be better)

weeblueberry · 06/10/2015 12:03

Avg 15 mins. But at night much longer.

brightreddress · 06/10/2015 14:03

I don't think it is unreasonable Jawanna. That topic gets no traffic. And I'm sure everyone would have thought it fine if my question had been 'how long is a typical bj session' (as someone misread) Shock.

OP posts:
New posts on this thread. Refresh page
Swipe left for the next trending thread