I look after my toddlers in the day and I teach from home Mon-Thurs evenings till 9.30pm and Saturday and Sunday late afternoon. I absolutely love my work - it's my passion and it really helps us money wise. DH has never complained but a few friends have made comments recently about it not being fair on DH or sustainable for our relationship. His mum has hinted at him feeling a bit neglected. Please be honest if you think I'm being unreasonable!