AIbu to believe I am not pregnant

[Physcobitch]

I am not on birth control and my period is 9/10days late possibly more

We dtd on day 9 on my cycle but it's been a hectic month and that was the last time exactly 4 weeks ago today...now we didn't use protection however he 'pulled out' ( I feel like such a stupid teenager ATM writhing that I should know better)

I did a test yesterday it was negative I feel fine apart from the odd phantom cramp as there is no sign of this period. I don't think I am pregnant or am I kidding myself

I NEVER have late periods. Then one month I did. No reason. About 2 weeks late. I did about 4 negative pregnancy tests.

Do another test to be sure then try and forget about it.

Stress, such as holidays/travel can cause late periods. Is this possible?

If you're 9 days late and you've had a negative test, then pregnancy is unlikely but not impossible. You can either test every couple of days until your period arrives or you get a positive test. Alternatively, ask your GP for a blood test.

I haven't been stressed, very tired yes as DC is 17 months and not a very good sleeper.

My sister has convinced me I am pregnant DH doesn't think I am

Will get an appt for blood test and the pill!!!

I'm 29 my cycles change between 28-35 days I've never went this long without a period though.

After having DC they were every 28 days then in May changed back to their usual 28-35 day stretches so annoying

I think if the last time you had sex was four weeks ago and you've just had a negative test it's pretty unlikely you're pregnant.