to suggest H moves into DDs bedroom?

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DD is off to university tomorrow so won't be there.

I don't sleep well. I thrash. I wake up. I have a dodgy back and my comfortable position is flat. But then I snore.
Obviously this irritates H and then he gets disturbed and wakes up and grumbles and gives off bad vibes which wakes me up.

The options are...

1. I kill him
2. He kills me
3. Someone moves out.

I don't think it should be me. I could sleep if I wasn't disturbed by his bad vibes.

he wouldn't give off bad vibes (???) if you didn't wake him up so surely it should be you that moves.

Or you could visit the GP since snoring is a medical condition

You sound like the bigger culprit, so you should move.

The snoring is because i'm on my back.

Get a better mattress, go to the GP.

You should move rooms.

You should move not your husband.

Yabu. You should go to the GP about the snoring or you move.

The one causing the issues should move.

why should dh move out of his bed because you don't sleep well, you thrash, you stay awake and you snore?
I'd suggest you move into dd's room x

YABU - you're the one with the problem (the snoring), you should make an effort to get it fixed. See your GP, try all the over-the-counter remedies available, find something that works.

I haven't got £800 spare for a decent matress.

He also gets up at 3am and wakes me up.

For 20 years.

I call reverse

You sound like a nightmare to share with, you should move!

You should move. DP is the snorer, DP was constantly disturbing my sleep. DP now sleeps elsewhere.

And I would sleep perfectly well if left in peace.

OK, 3am, that's different. Why, for work?

As a fellow snorer, I'd like to side with you. But I also get really narky when people disturb my sleep, so I'm sympathetic to moody husband too. I think you should offer to move (or just bury him in the back garden). Sorry.

*He also gets up at 3am and wakes me up.

For 20 years.*

So that justifies you being inconsiderate? What a lovely marriage you must have.

And I would sleep perfectly well if left in peace.

So would your DH, presumably.

Not reverse.

Sorry OP, another vote for you moving. Your snoring wakes him first. If you didn't snore, he wouldn't wake, which wouldn't wake you.

I am sure he would sleep better if left in peace too.

Again tackle the problem or move.

Damn. I'm never unreasonable.

Please consult your gp about the snoring. And yes, you move.

Re-decorate dd's room and make it the nicer one, you'll be happy to move.