to think my friend's reason for cancelling is very rude

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We made plans about 6 weeks ago to get together this weekend. Friend called to say that her DH had invited friends over that night so she has to cancel our plans. Her DH's plans were made after ours. The invited friends are not traveling from abroad - they live locally.

Is it not rude of her to blow me out because her H has made other plans?

Then again, I suppose if she wanted to see me, should could have told him she had plans??

or AIBU?

Stupid me had been letting this go on for some time, now!

with friends like these

I think if it was a one-off, then if would let it go. Mistakes happen, and people do,double book. Maybe they thought you would be more understanding than other friends.

However, if it happened on several occasions, then I would let the friendship,die a natural,death,