It's my ds party on Saturday. I've done football party bags with sweets pushback cars and birthday cake in it. Maybe something else when i go shopping later. My mum said you can't give football bags to girls you'll have to get separate ones for them without the cars and find a replacement for the cars. But That's just more expense. They are two seven year olds but mostly nine year olds. Aibu? Would girls find it so bad?