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Colleague sleeping / snoring loudly at desk

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H2OWoe · 12/08/2015 17:01

Situation: Open plan office. At least 20 to 30 people in earshot including some quite senior people. Every day about 2.30pm a colleague falls asleep at desk, very much against their will but they cannot seem to prevent falling asleep. Loud snoring / snuffling then occurs, this goes on for as little as 20 mins or as long as two hours.

On one hand, the sleepy colleague is embarrassed this is happening but they don't seem to want to do anything to help themselves. Won't get up and walk around when feeling dozy. Won't have coffee prior to sleepy feeling. Colleague has sleep apnea but refuses to use CPAP machine. They have deliberately arranged their desk so other people cannot see them in order to not get caught sleeping but they don't realise how much noise they are making.

Other people in the office have tried tactful interruption, bringing coffee to the sleeping person, concerned comments, outright challenge. The sleeper dismisses them and won't change their behaviour.

It's embarrassing / awkward being in the office with the loud snoring coming from behind a partition whilst we all pretend it's not happening. It's also bloody distracting when trying to write a report or do anything complex. There are also often high up vistors from other companies in earshot.

I am probably being unreasonable but I am finding the noise of snoring so bloody irritating! Should something further be done or do we all just grit our teeth and continue to pretend it's not happening?

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BiscuitMillionaire · 12/08/2015 22:30

Shave off one of his eyebrows? [immature]

chippednailvarnish · 12/08/2015 22:33

Shave off one of his eyebrows? [Hilarious]

TheCatsFlaps · 12/08/2015 22:38

I've just found an antique brass bell, you could borrow it and ring it loudly in his ear. Perhaps a little DIY CBT is just what he needs?

I've been walking behind a friend and chanting "shame!" three times before ringing it every time she wears this hideous leopard print top. The top is now in the bin.

AlpacaMyBags · 12/08/2015 22:39

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scarletforya · 12/08/2015 22:40

Film him on your phone and send it to him so he can hear how loud he is. He probably has no idea.

Kewcumber · 12/08/2015 22:52

Not all CPAP masks are that big. DH has a dinky one that fits just over his nose.

They don't work with everyone, I would much preferred one. the large ones have to have a seal of the silicon rim all around your nose and mouth. The biggest problem is getting leaks around the edge if you move too much or if the fit just isn;t good. its bloody irritating and hard to sleep when you have a ton of air blowing into your eyes half the night.

Mind you I have been camping with one and a car battery so I am the slightly determined sort.

He probably has no idea. - as he has a sleep apnoea diagnosis he probably does actually which is why his determination to do nothing about it is quite baffling.

One of the questions you get asked at the first consultation is "do you snore loudly enough that you can be heard in another room"

DarthVadersTailor · 13/08/2015 03:46

I used to work nightshifts in a call centre where you'd always get at least one person collapse asleep. This is where you have some fun and play Human Buccaroo - start piling as much office stationery as you can on them until they wake up and everything goes flying. If anything you can have a laugh about it rather than get angry Grin

LindyHemming · 13/08/2015 06:26

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