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To call my daughter Dora?

56 replies

Laindons · 11/08/2015 09:31

I really like the name Lydia, but it reminds me of someone who is very competitive and ambitious.. And mean. Sorry, don't think of Sense and sensibility at all.

Dora means "Gift from God", and a daughter would be just that after TTC for so long.
Yet, Dora the Explorer and the theme tune does come to mind too. Baby would be half Spanish by the way.

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Eva50 · 11/08/2015 09:56

I prefer Lydia.

ThePhoenixRising · 11/08/2015 09:58

I like it.

G1veMeStrength · 11/08/2015 10:03

Plenty of people name their sons Thomas without worrying about tank engines, I wouldn't let the exploradora put me off.

AndNowItsSeven · 11/08/2015 10:06

Love it but as pp have said Theodora is gift from God.

BlueMoonRising · 11/08/2015 10:07

Of the three, I like Deanna best. I don't mind the others, but I personally wouldn't chose them.

But then I chose a name for my DD that people often get wrong, or if they get it right think she's a boy. So what do I know?

(But she is a teenager and loves her name, so don't care what others think. Neither should you, op)

Fevertree · 11/08/2015 10:11

We have a daughter with one of the longer names you mentioned above, which I love, and she has started calling herself Dora (18m) it's super cute, I love it!

chrome100 · 11/08/2015 10:44

I was bullied at school by a girl called Dora so it's a no from me.

Bunbaker · 11/08/2015 10:48

"Okay, so what do people think of Deana then?"

Is that pronounce Deena or Dee-anna? Or is it a spelling mistake for Deanna?

AuntyMag10 · 11/08/2015 10:49

Dora sounds a bit like an older persons name. However Dora the explorer is what most people think do if you choose this be prepared to put up with comments. I prefer Lydia.

honeylulu · 11/08/2015 11:08

I love it. I seriously considered Isadora (I know you don't like) with Dora for short. I didn't think of Dora the Explorer. Dora was the eldest daughter in one of my favourite childhood books, the Treasure Seekers. I had a doll called Dorabella too.
Anyway when I suggested it to husband he pulled a face and said "oh no, it sounds like Doreen - an old lady name" and that ruined it for me.
Lydia is lovely and was on my short list.
Deana I don't like at all. I've known too many Deans and they've all been real wide boy types.

AnUtterIdiot · 11/08/2015 11:10

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Starbrite00 · 11/08/2015 11:14

Why is this in AIBU?
Well yes you are for not putting this in baby names.

raviolidreams · 11/08/2015 11:17

Lydia rhymes with chlamydia. I cannot think of any STDs which rhyme with Dora.

mijas99 · 11/08/2015 11:23

Plenty of women over 50 here in Spain called Dora, often people call them Dorita.

If your baby is half Spanish then I wouldnt call them Deanna. I guess you mean Diana? Which is pronounced like Deanna in Spain!

You can't get away with funny spellings here

DeeWe · 11/08/2015 11:33

I like Dorothea and Theodora.

But Dora, despite never having watched the show, would always have my brain adding "the explorer" on the end every time I heard it. Blush

I don't mind the name, but wouldn't choose it for that reason.

Bettercallsaul1 · 11/08/2015 11:48

Dora is very nice - can't think why anyone would object to it. I see it as a lovely, classic, Dickensian name. I wouldn't worry at all about Dora the Explorer - that craze will be over in a few years and be completely forgotten by the time your daughter is in her teens!

Bettercallsaul1 · 11/08/2015 11:51

Just noticed that my post is in direct disagreement with yours, DeeWe! Not intentional!

Baffledmumtoday · 11/08/2015 12:03

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pilates · 11/08/2015 12:19

It's awful, Lydia is much better.

AuntyMag10 · 11/08/2015 12:25

Goodness I didn't even link Lydia to chlamydia!

BackforGood · 11/08/2015 12:32

YABU for not putting this in baby names (or, from comments above, for possibly repeating it from Baby names.

VixxFace · 11/08/2015 12:34

dopey dora

LilacWine7 · 11/08/2015 13:52

I really dislike the name Dora, sorry. For me it conjures up an image of someone plain, dull, lacking intelligence or motivation. It also sounds similar to the word 'boring'.

Lydia is lovely. Timeless and elegant. I imagine a Lydia to be vivacious, ambitious, lively, clever.

CallMeExhausted · 11/08/2015 14:02

Ignoring the Dora the Explorer reference, look at this pragmatically.

One of the long forms of Dora is Pandora. When she is 16, do you want some young bloke trying to get into Pandora's Box?

CallMeExhausted · 11/08/2015 14:05

Ok, just hit me now... but

Perhaps this is why no one asks me about names any more Hmm

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