I think the top 10 of MN words in reverse order are:
Gaslighting
Anxiety (as in 'I suffer from...')
Invisible (as in invisible disability)
Entitled (usually followed by something about Toriy voters)
Attacking (as in attacking the poor)
Bashing (as in benefits)
Meltdown
Controlling
Vile
And top of the pops is Abusive
Rude is in at about number 12 for me.