To be utterly fed up?

[TangledUpInGin]

I'm in the process of packing up my family home after kicking my husband out after finding out about his affair. I've got two ds (5 & 15months). My ex has done a grand total of 6 hours clearing the house, has left me with a ton of his shit to clear. I'm feeling really sorry for myself, not only about my marriage, even though it would have killed me to stay with him, but now the bastarding carpenters have come on the fucking radio and reduced me to tears. Aibu to want 2015 to fuck off??

YANBU. Is there anyone nearby who could come and help with the practicalities?

Aww thanks, red . I was just been a bit maudlin. I've got a grip of myself now (and a huge ) so am feeling much better! X

Yanbu

Sounds crap

Bag all his crap up and dump it round wherever he is now

Second the pp who said dump his stuff. Not your problem. Have some .

Get a friend over to help you to chuck his stuff in bin liners for him to pick up

If he isn't sorting his own stuff then chuck it. Not your problem at all.
Sending you

Tell him to get his stuff or its going to the dump

It's a bit late to tell him that......it's already there!

He was so fucking awful to me our entire marriage (and before) I'm just so cross with myself for being upset about the whole debacle! Get a fucking grip Gin, and kick on, you'll be in your new house this time next week!

Nb: feel free to flagellate me for referring to myself in the third party - I'm suitably ashamed