what is most stressful in your life?

[Fluffybear86]

Hello just curious what would people say is the most stressful area of your life?

Trying to get enough money together for a headstone for my DD.

Living in poor housing conditions.

My dad and stepmum both have Alzheimer's

Teenage daughter on self destruct.

Other people

They're just unfathomable sometimes

I spend half my time just wondering why the fuck people are doing the things they do

I have stress dreams about other people doing crazy things

Money - running my own business means little in the way of stability. Peaks and troughs are very stressful.

My DN moving half way around the world to live with his F against the wishes of my DSis.

ah, yes

my ole friend insomnia how I welcome thee

Dd2. She's probably autistic/PDA/SPD. Her behaviour is awful and it isn't her fault. I find it so very hard to cope with. It's taken almost 2 years for medical professionals to see it, and now we are on the waiting list for diagnosis.

My other dds are suffering enormously. If dds behaviour was dh's behaviour, you'd all be telling me to LTB. It's incredibly difficult to cope with.

sugar21 - I am so sorry for your loss. I hope the one you want can be achieved.

Relationships. The most stressful thing that ever happened to me was exP's affair and our breakup. Now I'm currently having issues with someone else and I find it so tough! Work can be stressful, I do worry about money but I can usually shake those off but I think because relationship issues are so intensely personal, they really affect my sense of self, if that makes sense and so are more stressful than anything else.

((( sugar )))

My ds' autism and lack of support, carrying it alone on my shoulders. Trying to think of everything that can go wrong and trying to help ds cope with it.
People around me tell I'm great and a wonderful mother. I'm not, I'm no where near enough for him. I scream in my head a lot.

My job

The health of my ageing parents/PIL

My ones ....

Relationship with DH
Bereavement in family
Money and finances
Getting and keeping a job
State of the house/ getting stuff done

My dh's mental illness, i wake up every day wondering how he will be today and what impact it will have on me and ds.

My daughter's depression - worrying about her and her future.

My mothers dementure onset and hospitalisation
My dfs inability to cope with this without at least 25 texts and long long emails a day,
My dh working away
Building work due to start in the house
Mirena coil seemingly stopping working after 2 years free of bleeding ffs,
Being told I am to be a grandmother for the first time
Trying to run my own business without letting anyone down
Dd wanting a dog,
Other dd stressing on her GCSE results.

Thought to all you other stressed out women.

Amd a huge ffffffffffkkkkkkkkiiiinnnhhheeellllll! For us all.

My very elderly parents and their declining health causes me most stress at the moment. So many of you carrying much heavier loads than me though, my heart goes out to you all.

Thank you chipstick and juggling

My son on too little sleep. I can cope with loads of really challenging things, but energetic four year old when I am ready to face plant is just the worst.

Juggling work and being a carer to my mum and sister.

It used to be university, and before that it was school, so I must be doing something right because I'm getting somewhere buy I just feel desperate sometimes. I don't have much patience left in me and little things have me so angry or upset, it's silly. All my energy goes on caring for other people.

DS being bullied and feeling lonely and humiliated.

Are we moving, aren't we moving?

No one knows. Living in Limbo sucks balls. It's an inter country move and I already quit my job as we were moving. And now we may or may not be. Bad time to find another job where we are too.

My job. It makes me cry most days.