^I pay for all the things that state education cannot afford. So I pay for small classes and a high staff ratio. I pay for woodland adventure playgrounds and rope swings. I pay for 3hours of sport a week and expert music tuition. I pay for drama taught in a drama studio. I pay for the countless high quality visitors inc authors and artists and curriculum theatre productions. We manage this occasionally in the state sector and like all of the above, we would like to do more but we are constrained by finances.
I also like that I avoid petty rules over what my children eat at lunchtime and when I can take them out of school. I also like that I avoid sats and that my academically gifted ds2 is stretched sideways rather than pushed down a narrow academic path. None of my reasoning has anything to do with quality of teaching. It has everything to do with resources at the disposal of those teachers. Where I live, children are not failed by state education. Independents schools here need to offer something above and beyond academic achievement. They do that very well.^
All perfectly sensible and caring parents would do the same. Had I those resources, I may well make those exact same choices. But failure in our school system does not simply come down to class sizes. It is systemic. A combination of substandard resources, adherence to doctrine, flawed syllabi, bad governance, poor management and poor discipline. You do very well to pay for your children not to be put through that wringer, but to go on to say it really is a wonderful system filled with wonderful people, but You won't put your children through it, is a tad hypocritical to say the least.
There's nothing wrong with HappyBurger. They produce really nutritious food. Hygiene standards are second to one, and the staff are all well educated and well informed about the products they sell. Anything we can do to improve your experience we will be happy to do. We offer wonderful employment and training opportunities, and ensure our staff are happy and well rewarded....
... Oh, but I'd never let my kids eat there.