to think you should turn up if you say you're coming over at 9.45am on a Sunday?

[homewoes]

I would rather not have had to set my alarm for 9.30 this morning (no, I don't have DC). And I've now been waiting an hour. I know as soon as I get in the shower they'll turn up. So I've wasted an hour, and I have lots to do today!

Do I just stop waiting?

Bloody rude.

Stop waiting and do your own thing. So rude of them!

Who's coming?

Ring / text for an ETA and if they don't reply within 15 minutes send another text and tell them you have gone out.

I should have said they're just picking something up, hence not needing to shower and dress before!

Is it something they have bought from you?

Money for a job they did for me

Given up waiting now

Tell them you're going over to them with the money at 6.30 a.m. tomorrow. And turn up at 7.

Maybe something has happened to them.

If not, they are either forgetful or plain rude.

Very annoying.

YANBU

I make a point NOT to visit people on a Sunday . . I guess it goes back to childhood when it was more of a everybody indoors with family kind of thing . I am going back to the 70s .

Unless something awful has happened then it is rude , and not on