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To hate when people use "text" instead of "texted"?

141 replies

WhitePhantom · 23/06/2015 23:19

It just really bugs me.

"I text my friend yesterday" - no, you TEXTED your friend yesterday!

That's all. Rant over.

OP posts:
MardyBra · 24/06/2015 12:07

Thanks Disney. (It's hard to extrapolate from a sample of two. )

MardyBra · 24/06/2015 12:09

Who told you though deb?

Bettercallsaul1 · 24/06/2015 12:16

(It's hard to extrapolate from a sample of two.) Grin

debbriana · 24/06/2015 12:22

@mardybra
I was having a chat with a know it all person who decided to correct my usage of the word ''texted ".

CocktailQueen · 24/06/2015 12:29

They're wrong! Check out any dictionary - www.oxforddictionaries.com/definition/english/text and scroll down for 'texted'.

LauraChant · 24/06/2015 12:40

I always thought people who wrote text as the past tense of texted had just forgotten to add the -ed in some kind of autocorrect mishap.
Saying "I text him" sound weird to me like you are stuck in some kind of present tense novel. "I text him. I text him straight away. He reads my text. He laughs."

IsadoraQuagmire · 24/06/2015 12:40

MardyBra I'm 18 and I would ALWAYS say "texted", so not necessarily an age thing.

JassyRadlett · 24/06/2015 12:45

Saying "I text him" sound weird to me like you are stuck in some kind of present tense novel. "I text him. I text him straight away. He reads my text. He laughs."

Heh. Reading that I realised that it sounds to my ears as if it's being said by someone with English as a shaky second language. In my head, the accent is Russian.

BreconBeBuggered · 24/06/2015 12:56

My educational background and age are similar to MardyBra's, and I'd always say 'texted'. My slightly younger sister is a 'text' woman, however, and my 20-year-old DS (studying English language & literature) goes for 'texted'. DH gets around the problem by refusing to send or read text messages at all.

LauraChant · 24/06/2015 13:08

The other thing is using text for both the past and present is confusing! Is this something you are doing now or have you already done it? Why use a deliberately ambiguous word when you could use one which gives you more information? I can't think of any other verb where the present tense is the same as the past although no doubt someone will think of some!

BreconBeBuggered · 24/06/2015 13:38

Annoyingly, I can think of a few (eg put, set, bet) , but there's still no reason why 'text' should be irregular.

TealFanClub · 24/06/2015 13:38

OP i so agree

its VERY naff and uneducated

DrankSangriaInThePark · 24/06/2015 13:44

Texted will be victorious because it's correct. Text isn't. That is all. Thankfully we haven't yet become so namby pamby and dumbed down in the use of our language that we get to pick and apply rules we have randomly made up.

I do think it's only on MN (like the chicken that lasts a fortnight) where people think and say 'text' as a past tense. I've never heard it IRL.

Bettercallsaul1 · 24/06/2015 13:48

I think it is alive and well IRL, Sangria - hence the debate!

LauraChant · 24/06/2015 13:50

Oh yes, Brecon! I thought there must be some but nothing sprang to mind.

DrankSangriaInThePark · 24/06/2015 13:53

How can you debate something that only has one side? Confused

It's like saying "well, all the books say 2+2= 4 but I've always thought it was 5 so I'm going to carry on saying it is, even though all the textbooks say it's 4."

It's just daft.

Bettercallsaul1 · 24/06/2015 14:17

How can you debate something that only has one side?

So speaketh one of the "sides"! Grin (sorry to introduce yet another linguistic form)

DrankSangriaInThePark · 24/06/2015 14:31

Or "spake" Wink

Gottagetmoving · 24/06/2015 14:41

It's like saying "well, all the books say 2+2= 4 but I've always thought it was 5 so I'm going to carry on saying it is, even though all the textbooks say it's 4

No it's not. You can physically prove the 2 plus 2 using beans, or stones....
Maths is easily proved but language isn't.
There are lots of words and meanings in the dictionary that people do not follow. There must be some sort of licence to deviate.

Bettercallsaul1 · 24/06/2015 14:46

Glad we're still "speaking", Sangria!

DrankSangriaInThePark · 24/06/2015 14:47

Of course, in time, language evolves (hence spake-speaketh-spoke etc) but it would be a unique development linguistically if a regular past tense evolved into an irregular one. Lots of examples of the contrary: dream/dreamt/dreamed etc, and both forms tend to be considered valid, but I doubt it will happen with 'text' any more than 'should of' will suddenly become OK.

Gottagetmoving · 24/06/2015 15:52

'Should of' will NEVER be ok. Grin

ElkTheory · 24/06/2015 16:09

I'm firmly on the side of texted (or sent a text). I find it fascinating that many people think it sounds wrong, and I expect this means the irregular past tense form "text" will eventually become an accepted alternative. That's assuming that the phenomenon of texting lasts more than one generation. In reality it will probably disappear entirely and we will all be reading each other's thoughts via microchip or some such (and commuting in our flying cars). Imagine the footnotes of the future, carefully explaining what a mobile phone was and how people used to send messages known as texts.

WhitePhantom · 24/06/2015 16:10

I'm so glad there are others who feel as strongly about it as I do!!

I'm mid-forties and am very pedantic when it comes to grammar and spelling. "Should of" makes me want to batter someone with a rolling pin.

I actually feel a bit less annoyed about text / texted now that I know people make a conscious decision to use 'text' for past tense because they believe that it's right (even though I know it's not Grin Grin)

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LauraChant · 24/06/2015 17:02

That makes me more annoyed, White! I was okay with it when I thought it was an autocorrect mistake, but now I know it is a deliberate choice I am irked!