to think he should have at least let me know he'd landed?

[januaryblues11]

ex h took our 4 yo ds to Gran Canaria on Saturday

Sorry posted too soon!

he went last Saturday, didn't tell me which flight or hotel he was taking him to, and I haven't heard a thing since. He is due back today but I don't know when. AIBU to think he should have at least let me know that ds is Ok?

Have you sent a message to clarify?

yes. he ignored it.

Yes. That's awful!

So he's been away over a week and you've not heard a thing?

That's awful, is he always a twat??

To clarify, ex h and I have a difficult relationship. We supposedly have 50/50 custody but its more like 70/30 because he takes over and keeps ds when he should be with me, saying he is happy where he is, he wants to stay with him etc. we actually have a court hearing shortly.

January I really feel for you, do you have a solicitor?

He's just bullying you into submission by the sounds of things. Can you check arrivals to see if there's a flight landed?

You must be beside yourself

there doesn't seem to be a matching flight.. There is one that would have arrived a few hours ago but I haven't heard anything, or there's another landing at 1am, but surely that's too late for poor ds? I've text his mum but she's ignored it.

Text his mother again and say that as you've heard nothing you'll be contacting the police/embassy as you're worried they've been robbed or injured. Bet you hear something then