to think this is rude

[dejarderoncar]

I am a 70 year old lesbian with various physical problems. For many years I have rented a separate part of my house to a friend who is in her fifties. Friend has a new boyfriend, but also has elderly family staying with her at present.
I was away for one night recently, and said to her that she and bf could sleep in my room in my part of the house to give them a bit of privacy. They knew I would be back the following day, and know I am very rarely out late.

I returned the following day at 7.30pm to find them both in bed in my home. They made the excuse that they 'didn't think you'd be back yet', and slunk away like teenagers, but with no apology.

I have just changed all the bedding. AIBU to think that as I was kind (stupid)enough to lend them my bed, they could have left in good time, and stripped the bed ready fo me, as they had undoubtedly been having sex on my sheets?

[ImADonkeyOnTheEdge]

You are bang on the button there QueenBean

[CrystalHaze]

OP is a wind up.

Yeah, you've got a point:

OP: I'm a lesbian, AIBU about this thing that happened?
Some other people: What's being a lesbian got to do with it?
OP: How DARE you question why my sexuality is relevant?! Concealed homophobia!! But also, eeeeewwewee heterosexual sex!

[Stratter5]

Hmmm

[NoisyOyster]

Your sexuality makes no difference to the event. If you think sex is ewwwww why let them stay in your bed if you thought that's what they'd be doing?

They should have vacated and changed the sheets though

You need to stop being so defensive to other people on here though

[ohtheholidays]

YANBU they were though and they both sound old enough to know better.

You were extremely kind to let them use your bed,but don't ever let them use it again.

It's disgusting that they didn't change the sheets,they were taking the mick.

[DumbledoresKnobblyWand]

Yeah they should have changed your sheets. Did you want them to do it in front of you, though, or would you have minded if they asked you to leave the room before they did it? You caught them in bed. It's not like they had hours to change them.

Why do you find the thought of hetero sex so disgusting? Are you heterophobic?

[musicalendorphins2]

YWNBU. I wouldn't want to have to sleep in soiled sheets either. Plus, the bed should have been as you left it and the gone at 7 pm. Give some people an inch, they take a mile.

[Sleepyhoglet]

Why didn't you offer your bed to the relative staying?

[UterusUterusGhali]

I might change my user name to BuiscuityEyeroll

[RobbStarksBitch]

I'm at the OP's sheer double standards in regards to attitudes towards others sexuality. No actual advice as I'm just stunned really.

[Pumpkinpositive]

Maybe there was no "heterosexual fucking", ewww or otherwise?

Maybe they had a nice evening/day watching TV and relaxing?

[FarFromAnyRoad]

Definitely a wind up and certainly not worthy of a place in classics. Straight into the 'rubbish troll' bin would be more suitable.