Sorcha you wrote "I simply don't understand why trailing behind for ages is such a big problem..."
I gave an example of why it might be a problem for somebody (me, but in fact many people are in similar situations). I used words like occasionally - getting stuck behind groups of cyclists is not occasional but it being particularly frustrating or making me late is occasional.
You responded by saying my life is "chaotic". That is such a loaded and emotive term. It is absolutely always used to refer to people at crisis point who can barely cope with keeping their children clean and clothed or getting them to school most days - usually people who's lives are out of control due to addiction or abuse or destructive relationships and who can't hold down jobs and have social services involvement...
It is such an offensive thing to say based on somebody trying to explain that their schedule (like most people's even if not yours for some reason) can be tight enough to make "trailing behind for ages" frustrating occasionally.
I apologise somewhat if you were somehow not using chaotic in this loaded way - but it read very condescendingly indeed, coupled with your advice on how I should change my life, and reflection on your superior patience and planning skills.
I have said time and again it's not a big deal and feeling occassionally annoyed the cyclists don't use the cycle paths (which local to me are the ones I posted photos of) does not mean I drive impatiently.
The reason cyclists in groups riding several abreast are more frustrating in this situation than say a tractor is precisely because there's a cycle path right there, sitting empty while they slow a 100 kmph road to 10 kmph until such a time as gradually each car manages to overtake. One cyclist is never really a problem except on the very narrowest, steepest stretch of road where bends and hill crests are blind, so if you are behind a cyclist at all you cannot overtake - again there is a cycle path which would be safer for cyclists themselves but is less direct.
There are never traffic jams due to sheer weight of traffic locally - there are traffic jams caused by obstructions. Most are unavoidable. To be honest anyone who has never felt a bit frustrated being held up must be so laid back they are horizontal, and anyone who leaves in enough time for any eventuality on every journey must never combine tasks with set times into a single journey, and must spend a lot of time hanging about at all the appointments they are half an hour early for.