Sorcha how lovely for you.
Of course sometimes it doesn't matter. Other times it is annoying - living rurally with 3 kids whose schooling and activities rarely overlap, 1 and narrow 2 lane roads the only way of getting from A to B, C and D, and empty cycle paths visible it can sometimes be frustrating - the time I got a call to pick my then 3 yo up from Kindergarten as he'd cut his head open and needed taking straight to the doctor and I could hear him howling when they called it was pretty darn frustrating. .. also when I have to get to 3 separate places several miles apart in quick succession in order to avoid anyone being picked up late or late to things with specific start and finish times but leaving early isn't helpful except for the first stage of the journey as child 1 can't be picked up before x time but also can't be picked up late; then child 2 be needs to be at place C within a window of 10 minutes because earlier and he'd have to sit in the car park but later and the lesson will have started, and child c needs to be delivered home but couldn't be left there because nobody was home, and I leave straight from dropping him to get to evening work.
A lot of my day I have time, but sometimes the schedule is tight and being held up en route is a major pita. Even with a degree of lift sharing - there isn't always/ often a compatible person to lift share with in a small village.
Of course delays like tractors are inevitable - road works not really as they tend to be scheduled and sign posted so you know to take another route. The thing is tractors have nowhere else to drive but there's often a cycle path right next to the road... The suggestion cars take motorways is facetious as that's not an indirect but fast route - it's not a route at all from one village to another - the equivalent of B roads and country lanes are the only options linking those places.
It isn't a major problem, usually it's worth an eye roll, occasionally it is really bloody frustrating, if circumstances conspire... only occasionally, but it's what the thread is about.