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To hope that if Britain leaves the Eu so we can become the 51st State.

196 replies

GreenTeaMummy · 24/05/2015 18:48

I love American culture so much and would love to be American, I visit every year and have lots of family who live in America.

I was thinking that since we can't be alone in the world (for various reasons) we would have to join the U.S.

Aibu to think we should have a second referendum to join America. Grin

OP posts:
ShadowFire · 24/05/2015 22:06

No. A million times no. For all the many good reasons given above by pp's who also disagree with the OP.

AppleYumYum · 24/05/2015 22:06

Sorry but I couldn't think of anything worse, I can't stand America. I love being in the EU.

GiddyOnZackHunt · 24/05/2015 22:10

You can buy properly good cheese in the US if you know where to look Grin Apart from that I would be very averse to things like chocolate, health care, TV etc.

And anyway there was a fairly acrimonious divorce in 1781 which might not be unimportant. What'd be her maj's place in the new state?

CrystalMcPistol · 24/05/2015 22:11

There is lots I love about America. It's given the world Mark Twain (and a million other writers), cheeseburgers, Bill Hicks, jeans, motown, rock n roll......I could go on.

Just can't get my head around the OP's thinking.

IrianofWay · 24/05/2015 22:15

Good lord! why?

judypoovey26 · 24/05/2015 22:18

Having lived in the USA, I would say NO WAY! For all the reasons posters have stated upthread, and now because as of January this year, it is no longer the world's biggest economy since China overtook it. We don't HAVE to stay in the EU (although I think we would be better off) as long as we maintain strong trading links, but as long as we are closer to Europe we are better off. We have so much less in common with the US than we think we do.

Tony Blair behaved as if we were the 51st state, and look where that got us.

SenecaFalls · 24/05/2015 22:20

Some of these comments are veering off into pure nastiness. You all do know that there are quite a few Americans on MN, don't you?

Oh, and we do have culture. And quite a bit of it is based on the culture of the nation that colonized us.

Barbadosgirl · 24/05/2015 22:22

Nope. Don't want my husband and son to be shot when out walking while black.

Patapouf · 24/05/2015 22:25

Some of you have really made me chuckle. Especially re: spelling.

Seneca don't take it personally. For the most part it's the government/laws we take umbrage with. As for culture, British culture has evolved greatly since the 1700s, on a very different path to the U.S.

Put any nastiness down to residual bitterness thay you gained independence Wink unfortunately, threads like these are bound to descend into America bashing but I guarantee you we could equally fill a thread with things we hate about the UK. This is all just in direct response to the OP.

I'd be really interested to read the book a pp mentioned about this scenario!

LaurieMarlow · 24/05/2015 22:26

SenecaFalls, I agree completely. It's utterly ignorant to suggest that the US has no culture. Just think what it has given the world in terms of literature, music, fashion, TV, film, journalism, education, modern art, cuisine, I could go on and on.

However, I think the batshit nature of the original post has framed the debate for the worst.

AppleYumYum · 24/05/2015 22:26

It's colonised

LikeABadSethRogenMovie · 24/05/2015 22:28

The idea we pay for petrol before filling our cars because of drive by shootings may well be the funniest thing I've read on here in ages!

TheChandler · 24/05/2015 22:34

LikeaBadSethRogenMovie The idea we pay for petrol before filling our cars because of drive by shootings may well be the funniest thing I've read on here in ages!

The idea that a brief mention of such a thing is mistaken for thinking all Americans pay for their petrol because of drive by shootings is one of the dumbest things I've read on here in ages!

It happened in a rural town in the middle of a mountain range on the west coast, in Washington State, the equivalent of which would have been in the Italian Alps or Switzerland or similar. And it was such a surprise to have to do that in such a setting. We did as why they had that policy and were told it was because of gun crime at local petrol stations. No-one was laughing, I don't think the people working there found it funny at all.

TheChandler · 24/05/2015 22:36

*ask why.

babymouse · 24/05/2015 22:37

Wow some of the comments on here are hilarious.

I have to say my favourite comments on American bashing threads are about geography. One gets just as inane questions in the UK as an American as a Brit gets in the states.

But seriously, why would the US want the UK as the 51st state? And why would the UK want to join up? It's just wrong on so many levels.

GiddyOnZackHunt · 24/05/2015 22:38

You need to separate repudiating the silly OP from feelings about the US in general and from Americans as individuals. Some of my closest friends live in the US. They are sharp, funny and compassionate.

ErrolTheDragon · 24/05/2015 22:54

The U.S is too heterogeneous a place for 'feelings about it in general' to have much validity. The America I've personally experienced has been largely one of liberal rationalists. Still doesn't mean I would want us to become the 51st state!

MayPolist · 24/05/2015 23:31

Americans love the British.

Yeah, not reciprocated though is it!
I think this has to be the scariest Op I have ever read on Mn!!

SenecaFalls · 24/05/2015 23:38

why would the US want the UK as the 51st state?

Well, I assume that your electoral votes would be for the Democratic Party rather than the Republicans so I would welcome you for that alone. Smile

longfingernails · 24/05/2015 23:54

I adore America, despite its recent path towards socialism under Obama. I am sad to say it is a more perfect democracy than Britain.

We could learn much from our cousins over the pond, in particular, the entrepreneurial attitude, the just-do-it culture, and the excellence in cutting edge research.

Of course there are some things they do awfully, including big public infrastructure. And the midwest/Boston/NY American accents do grate somewhat (though I do like the Texas drawl). But all those are forgivable sins.

CrystalMcPistol · 24/05/2015 23:55

Socialism? Are you having a laugh?? Or have you been watching Fox News?

longfingernails · 24/05/2015 23:58

Obama is a socialist.

longfingernails · 24/05/2015 23:58

He famously wants to 'spread the wealth around'

CrystalMcPistol · 25/05/2015 00:00

As I suspected, Fox News.

SenecaFalls · 25/05/2015 00:01

Redistribution of wealth through taxation and other means has been part of the US economic system for a very long time; it's a long way from socialism and, to my mind, has not gone far enough. Obama is not a socialist, unless maybe you also think David Cameron is a socialist.

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