I was at my desk at work last week when a senior manager came into the office. It was early so not many other people around. We were speaking briefly and my pregnancy came up, he was surprised I hadn't changed my surname. I replied that I'm not married. He said 'oh, so you're just knocking out bastard children' (this is dc2).
I was annoyed and told him I chose not to be married, to which he replied 'oh well could be a millionaire but I chose not to be'. There was no humour in this conversation.
Aibu to think he's really rude? He's not British and I know in his culture unmarried parents are frowned upon, but I'm alarmed that someone in a position of power feels it's ok to spout these views. My friend said to go to HR but I suspect he'd only get a slap on the wrist and I'd be the one to suffer a reputation for complaining.