Damnedautocorrect Surely we can't live in a society where you make one fuck up (choose wrong carer, choose wrong partner) at such a young age and that's it.
That's a very interesting question, and not one I'd even pretend to have the answer to.
If you commit a crime, unless its exceptionally serious or one of many, you are given plenty of chances.
If you become bankrupt, it will probably only last a year (though will affect your credit rating).
If you make "social choices", they can affect your whole life. Not just getting divorced, but if you have gaps between jobs, it can push you down the career scale quite significantly. But I think most people know this, it was certainly drummed into me from quite an early age. Many of the most competitive university courses require exam results from the first sitting only. I had my education quite disrupted by pupils who couldn't be bothered at school, and even as a child it was pretty obvious to me that they would be those in the future who struggled to have a nice life. Divorce does tend to affect people's financial prospects significantly and I can't see a way out of this, other than treating the less financially strong partner more harshly. Which would then create another problem. The Scandinavian countries provide much better free or cheap childcare so that women can go out to work, but they have much higher rates of divorce and single parent families.
I exempt from this where you have a child/children young, out of wedlock, then express surprise that you have to support your children for the next 16 or 18 years, or if you have multiple children with multiple partners. But that's not what you were discussing Damned.
What is harsh is that I've noticed quite a few people being sacked from their jobs without notice recently, for quite small things which just about qualify as gross misconduct if you are very lenient with the definition, often people who have longstanding records of employment with that employer. This obviously saves on redundancy. I would suggest this could quite easily be resolved by clarifying the grounds that constitute gross misconduct in legislation much more firmly, and making them harder to prove.
I don't think its unreasonable though that poor career choices, especially resulting from not working at school, being disruptive, etc. do affect your life.
Its a harsh world at times, but still, in Northern Europe, we live in a part of the world which offers us a standard of living that would be an unattainable dream for most of the world's population.