So we have 3 dc. 2 primary aged and a 2 1/2 year old. Dh wrks long hours during the week and pretty much does nothing in the house except sort food for himself during the week as he is soo tired after work he would rather deep fat chips or crisps and cheese over a proper meal. As a result he is a little anaemic but yet again allowed himself to run out of tablets.
I am pretty much a sahm but do some ad hoc paid work.
Due to his early starts (up at 6, me at 7) he feels he needs weekend lie in more than me despite me doing the night wakings. (Thankfully rare now)
Now today I woke up 1st , gave youngest a quick breastfeed and than dozed whilst dh got up as he had to leave 1st today. Our eldest boy had a football tournament. They left and I got up as I had to take middle child to a party. Neither child had been given breakfast and both had soiled nappies and pull up on. (Middle one has soiling isses and minor sensory and anxiety issues.
Aibu to think if you are up 1st you should do breakfast and toileting as a fucking minimum. It just seems like he is of the opinion ghat all tge crap (lierslly) jobds are mine 24/7.
To be honest I have had to wuestin why middle child pull has not been vhanged before and he will say I adk him 4 times to get clothes.
aibu to think he should be more proactive.