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aibu to check out the porn site ?

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soorploom · 25/04/2015 19:28

just finished booking family holiday and dh e mail was left open by mistake and I saw correspondence with porn site. do I check it out? or ask or leave it well alone as his secret. I am feeling a bit flummoxed

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GraysAnalogy · 25/04/2015 19:29

what do you mean by 'correspondence'? Could it have been spam or was he emailing them?

MrsTerryPratchett · 25/04/2015 19:33

What's the site and what type of correspondence? There's so much free porn online now I would be very Hmm about the need to engage with a porn site.

TidyDancer · 25/04/2015 19:37

Yeah, more info needed. If it's something like adult friend finder and the like, then you have more cause for concern than if it's just bog standard porn (although obviously some people have just as much of an issue with that).

lescec · 28/04/2015 23:25

'Correspondence' sounds worrying. It could 'just' be a signup message, in which case the question is are you happy with him viewing porn. Or it could be intimate chat and that's a whole different level.

Patsyandeddie · 29/04/2015 00:54

Good god girl, have a look, copy it and see what he says!

HowDoesThatWork · 29/04/2015 01:35

I would follow up porn site correspondence. Why would there be correspondence?

Burke1 · 29/04/2015 06:12

Did you see the email straight away or did you deliberately have a glance at some of his emails? Just for my own curiosity here.

Onto the main issue: Doubt you have anything to worry about as most people do view porn, if it's correspondence that discusses more than just watching then that would be a concern.

NoArmaniNoPunani · 29/04/2015 06:27

You need to check it out. You don't need to correspond with a porn site just to watch porn. Which site was it?

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