She thinks he goes away to work regularly, once or twice a month. He is actually with my cousin's other cousin. I saw him, and my cousin confirmed it. She doesn't know my friend, but she does know who her cousin on-the-other-side-of-her-family is living with, part time.
I suspected something before, and found out for sure a couple of days agao. My friend did say once, a few months back that she had asked her husband out right if he was having an affair. She said it in a jokey way.
This is a no win situation isn't it. I'm sort of asking if i should tell her or not, but I think I already know I won't be able to bring myself to say a word.