To think you don't open your neighbour's door to call out to them?

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Bloody neighbour. Has boundary issues. I do like her but she is hard work sometimes.

I was just telling my Dd off (she was spreading peanut butter on the counter top) when my neighbour pushed open my front door wide...(kitchen is very close to front door) and stuck her head in and started to ask me a question.

I'm afraid I snapped "Can we close the door please!!" ...she did...and said "Sorry>" as she did it.

But really?? Would you do this? We are on friendly terms and if my door was wide open then fine...come to the entrance and call through. But it was SHUT! Not on the latch but SHUT!

No I definitely did! Unless you drink coffee out of your underwear!!

.. everyone where i lived growing up in rural villages used to have unlocked back doors. Until a sex attack in one village where he climbed over the back fence & just walked straight in. After that people were a lot more careful. But, you knocked before you walked in - always. You need to do that to announce your presence, because you dont know what you might be interrupting or if you have caught people at an inconvenient moment.

Peppermint she'd have written "Drinking coffee OUT of my pants" if that was what she'd meant.

Crumbs peppermint I totally get what you mean! there are some narky people on here today

God op yanbu there are two houses I would do this in , my mums and dads house as I have a key and they are happy for me to use it. Even then I'd shout !